So I have my new bed... the IKEA iron bed... but of course got the wrong side beams so I still live on the floor! It's been a week and I can't wait to get into this blasted new bed. So much for feng shui changing my life.
But these beams arrive on Monday so I have a few girlfriends coming around to help me build it. You can never just build these damn things on your own. Always slightly tricky.
Anyway, thank you for so many lovely comments. I am feeling great, getting in the pool, doing my own thing while the ex looks after the little one for me. Life is good.